Happy August!! Can you believe how fast this year is going! You know what they say days go slow but years go fast. These days they go even faster with all the digital distractions we have on the daily. Which is why I am proposing a Digital Diet!
Before you say this girl is crazy, a digital diet, time to read something new, please hear me out!
So, it was a nice summer day here in the country where my cell phone rarely works and my internet is a hit and miss most days. I had some friends come for a visit.
One of these friends was ALWAYS on her phone. It was starting to get a bit annoying and frustrating. They came to visit to get away from the city and to enjoy some country so why be on your phone.
Well, I hid the phone, well I sat on her phone. She got so mad because I wouldn’t give it back. So she grabbed my arm and gave little old me a good yank and I flew down the stair of the porch and landed face first in the dirt.
Now, some people are probably saying wow… crazy! But really think about it! What would you do without your phone? How upset would you be if someone took it away? How many times this year allow have you lost your phone and panicked?
Yes, being thrown downstairs was a bit extreme, but it was an accident. She just wanted me to get off her phone which I did take and sit on. Therefore, neither of us are innocent.
Now, with that being said. We as a society need a break from the digital. Hence a Digital Diet. We need to remember what a real conversation is. We need to stop relying on inanimate objects for entertainment, for communication, for connections, because really are those true.
Playing games on your phone against strangers or going to a play with a friend. Which one is true entertainment?
Texting a friend throughout the day when you have pockets of time, or meeting a friend for coffee and chatting without distractions. Which one is true communication?
DM from strangers on social media or a meeting of like-minded individuals talking about common interests. Which one is a true connection?
Yes, there are arguments that both in every scenario are true connections but which one will you get the most out of.
That is why I propose a digital diet. No not one that says give up your phone for an entire day, week, or month, because that would be insane. I am a blogger for crying out loud, my job is digital (Hahaha).
What I do propose is limiting your time. Take 1-3 hours a day unplugged, when you are not working or sleeping. Make plans with a friend and turn your phone on silent, leave it in the car, purse, or, even at home remind yourself what a try connection is. Find a group, book club, riding club, knitting club, whatever you’re in to find one and get to know people who like the same things as you.
Invite a friend to this challenge! #MCBdigitaldiet
Remember this is not about getting rid of digital distractions but reminding ourselves we can have a life without them.
Now onto the highlights!
Last Month High Lights/Changes: Really not too much! Trying out a new table of contents and so far I am liking it!
- New Year Hor d’oeuvres
- Goals for 2020
- Tough Part About Debt
- 17 Christmas Magic Desserts
- November 2019 Monthly Scoop
Life Scrambles Currently: The Garden is doing amazing! Loving the fact I haven’t killed it this year!
We have been doing a lot of family fun activities! Will really miss spending these days together once school starts.
Watching: At the moment the three shows I am watching and loving are:
- Big Little Lies on HBO
- Stranger Things
- Amazing Food Truck Race
Reading: Summertime Reading Challenge is in it’s last few weeks to join in all the fun and enter for a chance to win a fun book bundle for your kiddos!
Hooked On Eating/Seasoning: I have been eating a lot of nachos, and quick simple salads to beat this heat.
Working On: Still a secret, but subscribe in the sidebar and you will be the first to know.
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Excited For: This is exciting and dreading (all moms will get it) my kid starting a new grade and a new school. She is amazing, smart and my everything I know she will win over hearts and do great. But, it is hard watching them grow up.
Bloggers That Inspire: Kumiko Love from The Budget Mom
As many of you know it has been a busy year for us. We are working on rebuilding and getting our lives back on track.
May things have been a transition but the financial has been the most challenging for us. We have been trying to get our barrings.
The budget mom has been amazing! Filled with tips, tricks, even printables! Really making this year a bit easier!
I love how she talked about her struggles and her goals. It is not just a site about money it is a site about family and the cost of having family as well as the possibility of being debt-free!
- Get Your Shit Together this month is all about ways to cut back on your bills to make ends meet and the pros and cons to each one.
- Lit List for Mom and Kiddos
- and of course recipes!!
This month will be more about simplicity before we jump into the holiday season!
So there you have it the good the bad and the ugly. As always you can keep up this crazy thing called my life by following @messycuttingboard (for recipes), @mcb_lifescrambles(for life) @littlelulusbookclub (for book lovers) on Instagram.
Thank you for all your love and support! Have a great month!